Guest Post by Goodkin
“You and Joel are just too clean,” Sami groused after the fifth time
I had asked her to pick her dirty socks up off the living room floor
(ok, maybe it was only the second time). I asked her if she’s actually seen how dirty the bathtub is? But
I know she is talking about the fact I am always picking up—and asking
her to pick up—because I just cannot stand all our clutter. Sometimes
you can’t even sit down on the couch because it’s covered with
stuff—sweatshirts, books, dolls, art projects, backpacks, socks. And
I always have to clear off the table so we can eat there—though the
lava lamp and toy computer have remained shoved in the corner of the
table for the last 6 months.
Honestly, Lucy has far less than Sami and Cate had at her age. I feel like I just got rid of all Sami and Cate’s baby toys—and I just don’t have the heart to start over again. So,
Lucy’s learning to get by with less. But for Sami and Cate, when it is
time for some serious spring cleaning, how do I get them to get rid of
some of their beloved (and suddenly favorite) stuff?—and no, I’m not
saving it for Lucy for seven years like they want me to.
Last year I took a trash bag into their bedroom
and threatened, “Whatever is not organized and put away neatly by the
end of the day, I am throwing out!” And I meant it. It produced amazing results, along with a lot of whining and a little stress. But, by the end of the day, their room was the tidiest it’s ever been. And I had a bag of stuff to give away.
But this year I had an even better idea: Yard Sale! I told the girls that whatever they brought out and sold—they could keep the money. They got totally into the idea. They discussed, organized and carried things down to the curb. They set up their corner of the sale like they were professionals. Joel made and hung signs and I got change. We sat outside on the steps in the sun and waited for our customers. The girls started off reading, but as the day went on, we brought out music and hula hoops. We played in the street, skipped, danced, joked around, and even sold quite a few items. We met one of our neighbors that we had never even seen before. Our little sale became a fun little gathering. The best sale of the day came from the owner of the restaurant down the block, Sassan. He
stopped by and bought a painting from Joel, and then Sami convinced him
to swap 8 of her splatter paint cards she had made a few months back
for her favorite “Super Grilled Cheese Sandwich” that he makes. He brought the sandwich back along with 5 of his gourmet chocolate chip macadamia cookies.
At the end of the day we had made $225, one cheese sandwich, 5 chocolate chip cookies, and a lot of fun family memories.
Much better results than threats and a trash bag of last year.
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Photo: Flickr member Pink Sherbet Photography]
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